Don’t have them if you won’t raise them
“Parents today want their children to have the best opportunities to learn- so they enroll them in school programs almost from birth, put them in umpteen after-school lessons, or put them in day care so Mom and Dad can work for the goodies they believe are in their child’s best interest. This seemingly well meaning behavior is destructive to the psychological health of youngsters.
The kids are busy, busy, busy, but they lack the closeness of a parent. Instead they are surrounded by other children and end up bonding with them. As the approval and attention of peers becomes more significant and powerful than that of adults, behavior problems inevitably appear. Studies show that the worst-behaved kids are those who spend the most time with other kids.” -Dr. Laura Schlessinger (Parenthood by proxy… don’t have them if you won’t raise them)